What’s my purpose?
It appears as if the pandemic is turning a corner for the better, but we are not out of the woods. New variances are looming. Triple threat of Covid, Flu and RSV. Over 500K dead, many are sick, (with other diseases, non-Covid related), and here we sit with a reasonable portion of our health and strength. And it behooves us to ask the question, “What’s my purpose?” With so much uncertainty, ambivalence, wavering and indecisiveness; it’s only right; it makes sense to ask ourselves what’s my purpose?
I’m alive, I’m breathing, I’m moving, I’m thinking, my heart is beating, whatever I been through didn’t kill me, I’ve been given another chance so I have to address, give attention to, answer the question, what’s my purpose?
And it’s not just the pandemic we’ve survived, and are surviving, we all have our own story line, our life’s story; and each line is laced; ridden with pain and glory.
Personally, I’ve had 7 family members to recently pass away back-to-back to back-to-back to back with un-covid related diseases. And 4 were first cousins in my age range. As we were arriving home from the graveyard from burying my aunt, my mom’s sister, we got the call and received the news that my first cousin had just passed away in L.A. And a few weeks later, received the news that another first cousin died in Bakersfield.
I/We can’t just survive this pandemic, I/We can’t just survive this evil and cruel world, I/We can’t just survive our circumstances, I/We can’t be mediocre about it, I/We have to “Thrivive”. I/We have to be “Thrivivors”. We can’t be average, fairly middling, nothing to write home about attitude, run of the mill, common place, middle of the road, indifferent, lack luster, God has just performed a miracle in my life; over 500K dead, and I’m still alive, and I want to know what’s my purpose.
What on earth am I here for, and why did God leave me alive? I don’t want to wait on the next pandemic, crises, outbreak, widespread disease, I want to know now.
Viola Davis says there’s a difference between having a goal and having a purpose; she said the 2 most important days in a person’s life is the day you were born and the day you discovered why you were born.
A lot of us are discounting ourselves and taking ourselves out of the equation and not giving ourselves a fair chance at success because of all the bad that has taken place in our lives.
Who said that all of who you are had to be good? All of who you are is who you are!
Own it
Own all of it. Good and bad
Own every heroic deed and experience
Even if traumatic; own it
Seize the sword
No one and nothing can be great unless it costs you something.
To live a life of something greater than a hero’s journey, you have only to follow the thread of the hero’s path. Your existence is an amalgamation (combine, merge) of every triumph, every hard fought and won battle and yet here you are privileged and blessed.
How do you go from:
Broken to Healed
Dead to alive
Sick/afflicted to well
Confused to Sane
Locked up to free
Angry to At peace
Broke to Means/resourceful
What are you going to do with the rest of your life?
You can continue to live silent or you can choose to live out loud. I’m here today to advocate for you to live out loud. Find your voice, your vision, your victory, your vocation, your volume.
Nelson Mandela said, “Life is not worthwhile unless you take risks; take chances; don’t be afraid to fail; Think outside. The box.”
Dream
Dream Big
A life without a dream; is a wasted life.
Dreams without goals is just dreams
Langston Hughes says
What happens to a dream deferred?
Does it dry up like a raisin in the sun
Or fester like a sore, and then run?
Does it stink like rotten meat?
Or crust and sugar over, like a savory sweet
Maybe it just sags
Like a heavy load, or does it explode?
Reggie Jackson struck out 2,600 times…
But that’s not what he was known for, he was known for his home runs.
Thomas Edison had 1,000 failed experments ; 1,001 was the lightbulb
Every failed experiment is one step closer to success
Got to take risks
Don’t fall back, don’t quit
If you are going to fall back, fall back on your faith
Pray, pray and keep praying
P.U.S.H.
Pray until something happens
You may have the training and talent to succeed but do you have the guts to fail?
If you don’t fail, you are not even trying
Ease is a greater threat to progress than hardship. Are you making movement, or are you making progress? Are you counting your days or making your days count?
I’m sure you’ve heard to get something you’ve never had, you have got to do something you have never done!!!
To truly find your purpose, you. Have to survive and thrive; you have to THRIVIVE!!! You have to announce to yourself and to the world, “I am a “THRIVIVOR